pretty much, and the reason nobody here will toss out a rough number is what it gets used for. people dont ask this out of idle curiosity, they ask be...

totally fair to say it might not be for you and leave it there. theres no badge for trying it. on the fence and a bit anxious? "not right now" is a co...

the having-a-plan part matters more than people think. deciding ahead that getting help is allowed takes most of the fear out

flagging the obvious next question before it lands: "so is one a swap for the other". no, and im not going there. different things, different profiles...

its anti-hype both directions, thats the bit people miss. we push back just as hard on the "this is dangerous poison" panic as on the miracle stuff. g...

Exactly. 'Not for you' is a valid outcome.

the framing is just "its food". you're not hiding anything. if anyone asks, its honey, done. no reason to act cagey, that only turns a non-event into ...

yeah it front-loads the worst behaviour. "how strong can i make this" instead of a small amount and some respect

@Jake not weird, thats the whole point. declaring it accurately is the honest thing and the thing least likely to cause a mess. trouble starts when pe...

and "this might just not be worth it for your situation" is a fine outcome too. no shame in deciding the grey area isnt worth the hassle. beats chasin...

the part that worries me is the "so i can just pace it like beers" assumption that rides in on that comparison. it doesnt behave like that. not tellin...

@MayaW one more soft one — go in with no agenda for it to be A Big Experience. set yourself up well then let it be whatever it is. people who white-kn...

good instinct asking this part first ngl. quick version of what id want sorted: somewhere familiar (your own place > a mates you barely know), a so...