ok that helps, was worried something was wrong with me for still feeling that way after this long.

Bit late on this one. is there a rough idea of how long the waiting part runs, or does asking that just mark me out as new. its the exact bit i'm stuc...

makes sense, think id rather plan a bit ahead so i dont talk myself out of doing it properly last minute.

Ok fair, didnt realise people were saying both. guess i'll stop treating either one like a rule.

ok that makes sense, was overthinking the clock part and not the actual logistics.

@Jake it's up above, you tell him beforehand so hes not asking your permission later. anyway thanks, i was stuck on how to raise it. talking to him to...

still stuck though, does that mean you say nothing about the feeling side? leaving him in the dark seems off.

Update, gave it a a couple more days like you said and it's showing up now. false alarm i think, cheers.

Fair. wasn't going to assume either way lol, just wanted to know if id left money in a cupboard for a year.